Getting to the Bottom of Things – Erotic Spanking 101
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There are as many different answers to that question as there are people. For some it’s the exchange of power, for others the role-play, still for others it could be the actual sensation.
If you are interested in adding spanking to you sexual foreplay, consider what it is about the element of spanking that arouses you and what it is that may turn you off. Do research and talk to your partner. Ask lots of questions before you act. Make sure both Spanker and Spankee are on the same page. This is no time to be coy. Speak your mind. The more specific you are the better for you and your partner.
Some items to discuss:
Positioning – what is comfortable, what is not
Strength of spanks – pain tolerance 1-10 scale
Safe word – A predetermined word that serves to terminate the activity
Implements – Hand, belt/strap, paddle, cane, etc.
Role Play – setting the scene
After limits are negotiated there are several key elements to a good spanking that will enhance the experience.
The Spanker should
Set the stage – prepare the setting, implements and have a basic plan of action